Bi Week: Day 2


“If he asked you for sex, what would you do?” she asked. I thought about it and thought about it. “Oh no, you’re bi,” she said with all the weight of, “oh no, you have a fatal disease.”

It turns out we fought about it and fought about it. I wanted monogamy, she thought it was pointless with me. We should break up, we couldn’t break up.

Twenty years later, I’m still working through the confusion in counseling.


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